Steelpan music is more than just a cultural expression for Trinidad and Tobago; it’s a symbol of resilience, creativity, and community. Growing up in Trinidad and Tobago, music was more than just a pastime for me; it was a way of life. My father’s influence drew me deeply into the world of instruments, and from a young age, I knew that I wanted to pass this legacy on to my children. Moving to Edmonton, I faced the challenge of raising my family in a different culture, but I was determined that they would stay connected to their roots through the steelpan, Trinidad and Tobago’s national instrument.
Balancing my passion for music with family life and work hasn’t always been easy, but it’s been worth it. For me, it’is not just a career; it’s a crucial part of who I am. It’s also been a way to teach my children discipline and pride in their culture. Music has always brought us together, and that’s something I cherish deeply.
When my daughters were young, I made it a point to involve them in my passion. Music, especially the steelpan, became our family’s common thread. I remember my daughter Danielle—she’s the one who really took to it—falling asleep under the pan while I practiced. Those moments were the start of something special, a bond forged in the notes of our heritage.
There were times when I’d be up late at night or early in the morning working on music, making sure it didn’t interfere with family time. I believe it’s important to carve out time for your passions, but equally important to support those of your family. This mutual understanding is what keeps us connected, even when life gets hectic. As long as everyone knows what’s important and you all support each other, it all works out.
Over the years, I’ve found that balancing your work and family life isn’t just about scheduling—it’s about integration. My children have grown up with steelpan music all around them, and it’s become a natural part of our daily lives. Even now, as they take on their own ventures within the world, I see the same passion in them that I had as a young man in Trinidad.
In my experience, involving your family in your passion can be a powerful way to achieve work-life balance. It’s not always about separating work from home life, but about finding ways to bring them together. The steelpan has given us that, and I believe it can do the same for others. Whether it’s music, art, or any other passion, sharing it with your family can create a sense of unity and support that helps you navigate life’s demands.
To anyone trying to balance work and family, I’d say find the common thread. That passion that can bring you together. For us, it’s been the steelpan, and it’s made all the difference.
