Personal Development

Sound Heart – Sound Wallet

As a mental health and family psychotherapist, I am acutely aware of the critical challenge we face: the pervasive silence around mental health in our Black community. This silence isn’t just an absence of words; it’s a barrier that prevents healing, growth, and the realization of our true potential. Stigma, coupled with a widespread lack of understanding and the language to articulate experiences of anxiety, trauma, and depression, holds many of us back from seeking the help we need.

Our community is rich with unique immigration stories and diverse histories, yet these experiences often compound the challenges we face when it comes to mental wellness. As we leave behind familiar environments and step into the uncertainties of a new country like Canada, we encounter systemic issues that exacerbate our struggles. These issues, ranging from socioeconomic disparities to cultural disconnection, aren’t just isolated problems; they are deeply intertwined with our mental health, creating a cycle that can be difficult to break.

WHAT CAN WE DO:

There is no single roadmap to achieving personal balance and immigration stories are quite varied. Here are some communal and individual calls to action that can make a difference.

As a community:  

  • Advocate for better housing policies that offer provisions for newcomers.
  • Demand an affordable path to having one’s credentials recertified.
  • Curate culturally sensitive spaces that educate and support mental illness. 
  • Advocate for inclusive education to support immigrant youth. Greater representation in education can work against feelings of detachment.

Personal strategies that have served in my own transition:

  • Find purpose in what you do. 
  • Take time to unplug from technology, set boundaries  on your time and even emotions – this allows space to keep your personal life in perspective
  • Set goals for yourself, even small ones, and celebrate each win.

Achieving work-life balance is not just an individual responsibility; it’s a collective effort that requires ongoing support from our community, employers, and policymakers. We must take ownership of our path toward balance, recognizing that it often involves overcoming unique challenges as Black immigrants in Canada. Collaboration is essential in helping newcomers establish a sense of stability and equilibrium in their lives, ensuring they are not forced to choose between financial security and mental well-being.

While we have made notable progress in addressing these issues, there is still much to be done to close persistent socioeconomic gaps and elevate mental health as a key component of work-life balance. By fostering environments that prioritize mental health and provide the necessary resources, we can create a more sustainable and fulfilling balance between our professional and personal lives, ultimately leading to a healthier, more resilient community.

Joy Ruhigisha

Joy Ruhigisha

About Author

Understanding that it is not uncommon for our lives to unravel in face generational trauma, oppression and or severe life stressors, Joy Ruhigisha Founded Family Life and Beyond, a non-for profit Organization whose mission is Empower individuals, youths, couples and families to be their best well-deserved version, find a healthy perception of themselves and strengthen their relationships, so they can know themselves as peaceful, complete, whole and safe. This is done by providing counseling services and mental wellness workshops and seminars that focus on improving their quality of mental health and well-being. Joy is a Mental Health and Family Psychotherapist with 8+ years of experience working with individuals, youths, couples families and groups. Drawing from a diverse array of educational, career and life experience, Joy uses a blend of Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, psychodynamic therapy and mind-body approaches to support individuals in a whole-person, strength-based way, combining insight with action. She has expertise treating Anxiety and mood disorders, relationship and family issues, and personality disorders, self-harm/ suicidal ideation and trauma. Joy also works as a seasonal college instructor at different colleges helping students to understand the complexities of human behavior. Joy holds Bachelors degree in Legal Laws (LLB), a Master's in counselling Psychology and currently is Doctorate Candidate. In her free time, Joy, being a lover of life, enjoys to travel, hang out with family and friends, full-time uber drive her kids, work-out to stay physically fit, read, eat and sleep. My humanity is bound up in yours, for we can only be human together, I am because you are…

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